Yea, odd, I made a second account on mysite and that follows and unfollows normally.
So its a mystery why my first Admin account is doing it differently.
Maybe one day we will figure out whats altering the behaviour
AT Protocol by Bluesky offers Portable accounts (Change hosts without losing your content, your follows, or your identity) so it will end up in exporting profile at /user/yourusername/consent and using it elsewhere.