idle thought: morality is a function of values. different people have different values and thus morality is necessarily relative. to say that something is "good" is a statement that encodes your values into it. good things are good, but only to you. to someone else, good things can be bad. people with common values can build structures that encode those values, but this in turn excludes anyone who disagrees. don't pretend that universal good exists. what matters is who is building the structures